Are You High Status?

Hey Bruv,

The idea of "high status" gets thrown around a lot, especially since COVID.

Most people think high status is just about having a lot of money.

And while that’s not completely wrong, it’s missing something important—something that could be holding you back from building real charisma and attracting women.

Don’t get me wrong—having money is great. It can give you a confidence boost, which is a good thing.

But if your worth is only based on how much money you have, you’re tying your value to just that one thing.

Here’s what that means: If you don’t have money, you might feel like you’re not valuable. And that’s not true.

Think about how much free value people give away on the Internet. Do they stop being valuable just because they aren’t charging for it?

Of course not.

Their status comes from the value they provide, not just from money.

Some people focus more on money than others, but everyone has value to offer. Money is just one way to show your status, but it’s not the only way.

And here’s the problem: If your confidence comes only from money, it can come across as fake.

Think about a tech guy who hides behind his fancy car and bodyguards, but he’s still insecure.

The money might make him seem high-status, but deep down, it’s just a mask.

What really makes people see you as valuable is your behavior—how you act. It’s not about faking it until you make it.

A lot of guys with money don’t even feel like they’re enough, which is why women can manipulate them so easily.

Without the right high-status behavior, a guy with money becomes a target, not a winner.

So what is high-status behavior?

It’s not about how much money you have.

Sure, money helps, but what really matters is how you carry yourself and how well you understand social dynamics.

We live in a world with social hierarchies.

Even if you’re rich, you can still fall behind if you don’t know how to navigate these dynamics.

Status isn’t just about money—it’s about how other people see you.

Once you get that, you’ll realize that money is just a tool, not the end goal.

True high status comes from charisma—the energy you give off, the confidence you show, and the way you make people see your authority.

That’s way more powerful than money alone.

Still don’t believe me?

Look at how much money con men with charisma have gotten from rich people. Guys like Bernie Madoff or Christophe Rocancourt used their charisma to get people to trust them—and take their money.

Remember the movie Catch Me If You Can with Leonardo DiCaprio? That’s a perfect example of what I’m talking about.

Your self-belief is your biggest asset.

It’s the foundation of high-status behavior.

This is why confidence and a little bit of arrogance can be so attractive to women.

It shows you’re in control and that you’re above others, which speaks to her needs.

If you don’t have that, she’s more likely to leave you or cheat on you with someone who does—whether that person has money or not.

In the end, status is about how you present your reality to the world.

Best,

-MOS