Don't spill the beans early

Hey bruv,

A common mistake I see men make is telling a woman their intentions too soon.

Revealing your plans with her right away is the quickest route to failure.

When you tell a woman you want a relationship with her, she hears:

“You’re the best I can get, so I need to lock you down fast.”

This makes her compare you to the guys who hooked up with her and moved on, seeing them as more desirable.

She’ll either lose interest or feel like she’s settling for less.

This is one of the easiest ways to ruin your chances.

Keep things ambiguous.

Don’t be too direct about what you want.

Keeping a bit of mystery is key.

Even if she wants something serious, she might feel annoyed you didn’t just give it to her.

She won’t know why she feels that way but will make up another reason.

\Women often aren’t aware of their own feelings.

When you avoid giving clear answers, it makes her think more about you.

Mystery draws her in.

Give her just enough to keep her curious and deflect when she tries to dig deeper.

It’s all about playing the mental game.

Stay sharp.

Always stay a few steps ahead.

Enjoy,

• MOS