A Fine Art

Hey Man Of Steel

Coming to you live from NOT the sick bed.

After getting myself nursed back to health by my gf, I'm back to giving out content that will improve your game.

Let's dive in…

If you are trying to win someone over, the first thing you should do is not give off a vibe that you are trying to gain their approval.

For me, anytime I win somebody over, it starts with me not wanting anything from that person and just putting out a good vibe.

That's being:

- Non-reactive.

- Confident.

- Able to speak without a filter.

I just open them without hesitation and my mindset here is "I don't want anything from them."

I will say "Hey what's good, how's your night going bro?" I treat them like we are already friends.

The moment you go up to a person and are mincing words, they will assume something is wrong with you and just ignore you.

It doesn't take a huge intellectual capacity to categorize somebody cause everything is instinctual based on body language, sound, and body language.

There are no words or lines that can win someone over, it's only the vibe (I don't/need want anything from you).

The more you can give off that kinda vibe, the more people can pick up on that subtly.

Yes, it takes practice as no one ever gets it down on their first try.

You got to look the part and also act the part as people can pick up on the subtleties.

Does look matter?

Yes, which means you can improve your looks.

But the most important is how you come across:

- Focus on vibes (how comfortable are you with yourself? and how confident are you in your ability as a man?)

- Focus on body language (watch yourself in the mirror and correct posture)

- Tonality (sound confident in yourself and what you do)

Godspeed!

-MOS