How to deal with strange behavior from women

Hey bruv,

Whenever a girl starts acting strange—being hot and cold, or behaving in a way that doesn’t make sense, it’s important to address it directly.

Here’s what I usually say:

"Hey, sometimes it feels like you’re interested, and other times it feels like you’re not. What’s going on?"

This simple question gets straight to the point.

It opens up a conversation where you can find out what’s really going on and work together to resolve it.

This way, you can avoid the same behavior happening again in the future.

It’s such an easy approach, yet most guys avoid it entirely.

Here’s the thing:

I Handle Issues With Women Head-On

It’s honest.

It’s straightforward.

And women respect it because it acknowledges the obvious instead of sweeping it under the rug.

By being direct, you show that you’re mature enough to face problems rather than ignoring them.

Often, she’ll reflect on her own behavior and make changes herself.

From there, things can go back to normal.

What Most Guys Do Instead

A lot of men pretend nothing’s wrong, even when it’s obvious to both of you that something is off.

This approach never works.

Avoiding the problem only allows tension to build, and over time, the relationship falls apart.

That’s why it’s so important to get comfortable addressing issues directly but without being overly aggressive or confrontational.

If She Denies Anything Is Wrong

Sometimes, a girl might brush it off with something like, “Oh, everything’s fine.”

In this case, don’t just drop it.

Call it out:

"No, you’ve been ignoring my texts or turning down plans. You weren’t doing that before. What’s going on?"

Keep pressing calmly but firmly until she’s ready to have a real conversation.

This method isn’t just effective with women.

It’s a powerful way to handle conflicts in all areas of life.

Why This Works

By addressing the issue directly, you show leadership, confidence, and emotional intelligence.

Women are naturally drawn to men who can handle challenges without avoiding or overreacting.

If you want to master how to handle any behavior a woman throws your way and do it in the most attractive way possible—start applying this approach now.

Take care,

-MOS