Keep this 3 things in mind

Hey Bro,

I see no reason in today's modern society to have a "legal marriage" where the government can fvck you over at any time in your relationship.

Why should they be involved in the good thing you both got going on?

After all, you're married to her not THEM.

"BUt WON't SHe WAnt SEcurITY?"

Why should she, when you are not going to leave her out to dry. Besides if you both have something good going on then she will trust you and wouldn't even care about that.

Most times, when people say "marry her." They literally mean "Give her a wedding".

But most so called"weddings" have led to countless divorces.

Anywhere, when it comes down to setting down, you should keep 3 things in mind:

=> The quality of the girl you want to be with

=> Your level of ambition

=> ARE YOU READY?

If she is the "one" ( I mean a one in million kinda of girl), you've accomplished most of your goal in life and you're really sure that you're ready to settle down.

Then by all means, GO FOR IT.

But if you're amiss in 1 or 2 of these criteria then I advise you do it go into marriage.

AND NEVER, NEVER, NEVER EVER LET ANYONE PRESSURIZE YOU INTO MARRIAGE.

It won't end well.

THE DECISION MUST ALWAYS COME FROM YOU.

-MOS