Never Do This on the First Date

Hey Brother,

First dates are always interesting.

Most of the time, the woman isn’t as attractive in person as she looked on her Instagram.

You might show up with a few lines and routines in mind, ready to impress her.

But as soon as you sit down, your mind goes blank.

“How do I keep her interested?”

And THIS is the biggest mistake men make on a first date.

You feel like it’s your job to entertain her.

Wrong.

Your job is to SCREEN HER.

She’s applying for a spot in your life.

The first date should always be about finding out if she’s more than just a pretty face.

But what happens most of the time?

Guys let the woman take control of the interaction.

She becomes the one interviewing you, and you step into the "job applicant" role she sets for you.

The first thing you need to do is reject that role.

For example, if she asks, “So, what are you looking for?”

Don’t give her a straightforward, logical answer right away.

Because by doing that, you let her take the lead and cast you as the follower.

And here’s the truth:

Women don’t want to sleep with guys who “FOLLOW.”

Women want a LEADER.

And before you lead her into your bedroom, you need to lead the conversation in a way that makes her feel like she’s chasing you.

Your reply?

“I’m not really looking for anything—except to prove something wrong about cute girls.”

Her: “What’s that?”

You: “That cute girls are always bad in bed. Why are you trying to steer this toward s€x? You seem like the type who just lies there and does nothing. Bet you couldn’t even handle me.”

Add a playful smirk and say, “Haha, just kidding—come here.”

In just one line, you’ve:

• Playfully disqualified her.

• Framed her as the one talking about s€x.

• Complimented her by calling her cute.

• Challenged her to prove herself to you.

• Reclaimed the LEAD in the conversation.

From here, if you knew:

How to build rapport to make her chase you.

The right questions to connect deeply with her.

Word-for-word lines to charm her completely.

You’d be UNSTOPPABLE.

By the way, those are just 3 of 176 tips included in my First Date Program for men, From Date to Bedroom

See you,

-MOS