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Daniel Blaze
March 10, 2024

Hey Brother,

We've all been there, where you approach the attractive girl, open her - then stall.

For whatever reason, you won't be able to continue the convo (as a result of approach anxiety) so it becomes super embarrassing since the hot chick you're talking to can spot you don't having nothing interesting to say.

Even more embarrassing is if you've been talking to her for 20 seconds tops!

Example of a convo highlighting this:

Me: "Hey, just wanted to let you know you’re beautiful."

Girl: "Ok thanks."

Me: "So… what’s up?"

Girl: "Nothing…"

Me: "Ok, later then."

Very awkward convo but it's what most average guy's convo look like so...

PRESENTING THE 3-WH TECHNIQUE

3-WH stands for "When, Where, Why and How."

Basically you ask girl those 4 questions and doesn't have to be in the same order also (can done in online texting too)

Example of employing the "3-WH" when stalling:

Me: "Hey, is this the bus which gets me to the town market?"

Girl: "Yea it is."

Me: "Ok cool."

[Now, instead of standing there quietly like an anti-social loner (waiting on the bus next to the hot girl) + continue the chat via 3-WH]

Me: "So, WHAT is there to do in this town on the weekends?"

HB: "Oh, we have a lot of sports bars and clubs, bla, bla, bla…"

Me: "Cool. But I’m not really the bar-type. And WHERE is this Club Zero I keep hearing about BTW?"

Girl: "Oh, it’s further downtown next to the X mall."

Me: "Really!? I’ve been to X mall 100 times but never seen this Club Zero And HOW’s the atmosphere and music there”?

Girl: "Oh it’s cool! Very chilled most time. The DJ plays great music."

Me: "I might have to check it out next week or so. And WHEN is the best nights to go there?

Girl: "Fridays are off the hook. I usually go with my girls."

Me: "WHY is it that everybody parties around here on a Friday!!? I’m usually chilling on Fridays."

Girl: "I don’t know. Maybe because…"

So there you've it guys (the 3-WH TECHNIQUE) so never should you rack your brain trying to figure out what to say next to salvage a "stall" situation.

This technique could be used in any venue whether bar, club or online dating apps etc.

If you want to make sure that you don't struggle in conversations and running out of things when talking to women then...

Until next time

-MOS