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Hey Top G,

There is this "silly response" in the red pill that all your relationship issues can be solved if you just act more dominant and assertive, known as being "alpha."

Nothing could be further from the truth.

"When your relationship is faltering, just use more dread Game and be Alpha Brrr"

This is an incredibly terrible advice.

When your woman isn't happy in the relationship, she'll def show signs and you have to learn how to read those signs to know what the solution is.

Similar to a doctor looking for symptoms to diagnose a patient in order to find the right cure.

To think "being more Alpha" is the solution is like thinking anti biotics is the cure for every broken leg.

It's about understanding the specific signals your partner is sending.

When your relationship is going badly, there are roughly 2 ways your woman can act

1) She becomes more distant.Tries to avoid you. Isn't interested in you anymore

2) She becomes more demanding. Creates more drama. Gets jealous. Starts nagging

Two very different scenarios.

Red Pill will have you believe the solution to both these scenarios is to just "be more alpha," but only in one of these two cases that will actually help.

In the other case it will just destroy your relationship even further.

Can you guess which one?

The answer is that if she becomes distant, it's a sign that she's lost her (sexual) attraction to you.

In this scenario you need to increase desire/be more alpha

She's checking out because you don't excite her anymore.

You need to turn up the bad boy inside you.

In the other case that she becomes more demanding, she is covertly communicating with you that she needs more comfort.

She starts nagging you because she needs an emotional response from you and this is the only way she knows how to get one.

Becoming more aloof will only make this worse.

When she becomes needier, it's a sign that she is still (sexually) attracted to you but she doesn't feel comfortable in your relationship.

When this happens, you need to provide her with more comfort.

Find out why she's insecure and do something about it.

Hope this helps your relationship.

-MOS