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Hey Brother,
One of the things you will hear a lot in the dating space is how you need money to attract women, though it has its strong suit - I assure you that you don't really need it and here's why…
As I've mentioned before, having money doesn't usually make women desire you more. It just makes life more comfortable.
Beautiful women often date guys who don't have much money at all.
If you believe you need money to attract a woman, you might not understand how women think.
However, this doesn't mean money isn't important in attraction.
Feeling comfortable can make desire stronger.
If the broke guy who still gets girls suddenly became wealthy, the woman might be really into him (not just looking for a casual hookup).
Having financial stability becomes more important as you get older; mature men are expected to be secure financially.
But for guys in their early 20s, it's not as crucial.
Women want a man to have a decent income for two reasons: lifestyle and security.
These reasons vary based on a woman's own expectations and preferences, but the idea is that you should earn enough money to provide a good education for your kids and avoid financial struggles.
Most men only need to meet this basic level of financial stability to attract a partner.
While having more money is nice, the benefits decrease after reaching a certain level of comfort, typically around a low six-figure income.
However, money can indeed create desire in certain situations. The key? You need to have a significant amount of it.
Here's why: When you reach a certain level of wealth, money becomes more than just money — it's power.
If you can easily whisk a woman away on a private jet to a luxurious island, you're not just providing comfort or an amazing experience.
You're showing that there are no limits for you.
Essentially, you're portraying a god-like quality: the ability to make anything happen instantly.
And let's be clear, this is really attractive to women.
You're not just powerful, but you're providing everything they need to feel feminine and relaxed.
They'll likely want to have sex with you almost immediately.
And aside from that, having lots of money often means having elite connections, which boosts your status and gives access to exclusive experiences — another big factor in attraction.
So, yes, money can definitely make a big impression. But for most people, it's a high bar to reach that level.
HOW MUCH?
How much money you need depends a lot on how you manage your wealth.
Being a millionaire in South America might impress beautiful women because you're ahead of most guys.
But in Western Europe, you might need five times more to stand out.
These numbers aren't exact, though.
Overall, having around $5 million in accessible money is probably when you can start offering these kinds of experiences to women.
But you might need as much as $10-20 million before it's something you don't even have to worry about.
So that’s an option for you to become more attractive to women. Be filthy rich: just stay in decent shape, and simply have some basic level of game / grounding. You’ll clean up with girls who look like models.
So, if becoming really wealthy isn't an option for you, don't worry. There's still good news:
My course, where you'll learn all you need to succeed with women, costs less than a dinner for two at a fancy restaurant in NYC.
That's a great return on investment, especially when you'd need a lot more than just dinner to impress a woman with your financial status.
Instead of trying to buy desire for one night, you can invest in learning how to attract beautiful women and keep them interested in you, no matter how much money you have.
All the best,
-MOS