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Hey Brother,

Let's dive in deep on the proper way to get a girl's phone number to set up a date.

It's a better position to be in when a girl is number-closing you cause then you know she is heavily invested in you.

So shall we...

STEP 1: DON'T WAIT TILL THE END TO START CLOSING

Don't wait until the girl says "Gotta go, nice to meet you" before you start trying to number close her.

Yes, she may give you her phone number but then you are stuck in a situation where you have her phone number, there are no plans discussed and your number isn't saved on her phone.

Most guys get the girl's number without ever discussing plans to meet up in the future.

So the best way to go about this is to make sure as soon as she begins showing interest... starts closing.

So if she is:

- Holding eye contact

- Giving indicators of interest (IOIs) like giggling, touching you, shit test, and qualifying herself to you.

- Engaging and asking you questions

Then you should start babystepping to the close.

STEP 2: START DISCUSSING POTENTIAL DATE IDEAS

Once attraction have been established, you should be figuring out possible dates for the future.

So start throwing ideas that both of you could be doing in the future (which could be tomorrow, next week, etc)

So you are either into getting coffee, food, drinks, hiking, walking, etc are activities you could invite her to.

The idea here is you want to find out the activity that you and the girl both like to do, so that way later on it makes sense to get their number.

So you could be throwing out several different ideas to see what she likes.

Ex:

"Have you been to Yumn Brasserie, the food there is lit?"

No.

"What of Battersea?"

Keep going until you find a spot she hasn't been to or one that she likes.

Note: Pick the spots that are close to your place (probably 5 minutes away from your place) so you can bounce her to multiple spots before taking her to your place.

After figuring out a spot you would want to take, DO NOT INVITE HER YET.

If you are confused then read Step 3

STEP 3: PAINT A PICTURE IN HER MIND ABOUT DOING THE ACTIVITY

This is where you hype up the activity/place you want to take/have her participate in.

"That place is the bomb and it's fricking awesome." goes a long way to pique her interest and have her excited about going to a place like that with you.

You don't want to sound boring when you describe that activity or place.

You hype the place/activity without inviting her yet.

STEP 4: BABY STEPS FORWARD TOWARD THE CLOSE

The higher her interest level, the more dire t you can be when going for the close.

So after hyping up the place/activity, you can now start baby-stepping forward for the close.

High interest = Direct close

Say you invite someplace and she tells you that she has never/been there and would love to go there then that is high interest so go for the kill.

Moderate interest = less direct close

Here I will say something more subtle.

"I'm low-key tempted to invite you to join me sometime." Notice how it's not so pressuring on the girl. It's a maybe question.

Most girls will ask you to invite them but some will be 👇👇

Low interest = don't close and keep vibing

Most girls won't want to go especially considering it's still hit early in the conversation. You have two options here:

- You transition from the close, tease her, and build rapport a bit before going for the close again.

- You just eject from the set.

Prefer you use the first option, second option is for busy guys who don't have time to get laid.

Now if you follow these four steps, it's not uncommon for the girl to be straight up asking for your number.

Now you both have a REASON to exchange number which is for a date you both planned for.

🔊 Did you enjoy this email?

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-MOS