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Hey Brother,

When guys aim to increase their body counts, they often lower their standards.

This isn't necessarily about a woman's looks.

You might notice some warning signs but still go ahead because it's not easy to argue with a raging boner and the goal of more notch counts are hard to ignore.

With more experience, you tend to be pickier, usually because of negative experiences.

One of my early encounters was with a woman who seemed to be in good shape.

But once she removed her body-shaping clothes, I was shocked.

I didn't want to offend her, so I pretended to be very tired but didn't dare to sleep in the same bed with her as the thought of her touching me was horrifying.

I didn't want to spend money on an expensive cab either, so I had to endure the situation until morning.

This bad experience made me raise my standards significantly.

A good rule to follow is: if you're unsure about sleeping with someone, it's better not to.

There's more to women than just their looks.

NO I'M SERIOUS ABOUT THIS!

It's easy to decide not to sleep with a woman you're unsure about, but it's much harder when she's incredibly attractive.

Even if you see warning signs, you might ignore them because you're so taken with her.

After a great night together, you might be eager to see her again.

However, reality can hit hard if she starts causing drama in her life.

Some women might create problems that require your help, like overspending, fighting with a roommate, or having public arguments that need you to pick her up.

I once dated a woman who often started fights with waitresses or store clerks, and I had to step in.

Looking back, I'm surprised I put up with it.

It's easy to overlook red flags when you're young and eager, but as you gain experience, you learn to recognize them.

You might have heard many women threaten to go to the police if you don't become their boyfriend after pumping and dumping.

Experiencing this once is enough.

Emotional instability can show in many ways, and women often try to hide it.

One sign is frequent weight gain and loss.

This might mean she loses weight when she's bored with her current guy and gains it back once she's found someone new.

This is just one example.

If you pursue a woman showing such signs, you're likely to get hurt.

With unstable women, there's never just one issue - there's always something more.

Unfortunately, while I could talk all day about the dangers of emotionally unstable women, many men won't understand until they experience it themselves.

Men often make too many excuses.

A woman has to become a significant burden before a man learns this lesson.

Inexperienced men usually suffer in silence.

Men raised by abusive mothers are the worst off, as they often think such behavior is normal.

To grow, you need to set standards, not just for yourself, but for the people in your life.

Because of the intimate nature of sexual relationships, including one-night stands, you need to have high standards for women, otherwise, you might face serious consequences.

Until next time,

-MOS