Q & A session

Hey Brother,

Got a Q & A from a fellow subscriber, so let's get into this…

Hey MOS, how do you handle a situation where you are in a monogamous relationship and your girl has male friends who she's close with. She claims he is like a best friend or brother to her. I'm interested to know how you feel about whether if it's right or not for your girlfriend to have male friends that she is close to like that when she is in a relationship because there is a saying that your girl should be your best friend so with that being said, does she need other guys to be close with? I don't want to come across as controlling but at the same time, I don't want to look stupid either I'm personally not in a relationship or trying to be in one anytime soon but because I'm trying to learn all aspects of the game so I -come across situations like this so I want to know the best action to take?

-Z

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My reply:

So here is the thing, your girl shouldn't have guy friends cause it's one thing for her to have a male friend that she grew up with to one that she met a month or two ago. None of that should be happening. Now the thing is you don't want to come at her in an aggressive way about it but we both know she should know better than to have a male friend so...

What you need to do is come to her and say (use the word "we") "listen ‘we’ know that the guy isn't trying to be your friend cause he's just doing this to smash, right and since we know this, what are you going to about this cause if you want to be in a relationship with me then you know what to do?"

By saying this, you are putting the ball in her court making her realize that she's being childish right now and every excuses she gives is all bullshit.

You basically telling her this is not cool but not in a forceful or controlling way. You just casually telling her that if she values her relationship with you then she knows what to do.

A lot of guys are naive with this sh*t and would let it slide which would let her grow bold in doing this kind of stuff even if she knows what she's doing is not good but will go on with it since their men are naive.

But by “putting the ball in her court” you let her know you are not naive about things like this.

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Until next time

-MOS