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HOW TO TALK TO GIRLS.
Hey Brother,
Let's begin...
Let's start by addressing your mindset regarding Game.
Don't filter what you say, just assume that whatever you say is awesome whether or not you get the girl.
It should be like a foregone conclusion, you should just assume that you will get the girl.
There should be no doubt in your mind.
This needs to be your mindset cause now you take away every pressure to want to say or do the right thing.
Then you are able to flow naturally and be authentic.
Cause that what women are going to respond to.
• CALIBRATE AFTER AND NOT BEFORE.
When talking to girls, don't try to filter what you are saying.
Instead you calibrate after and not before the interaction.
This means you say what comes to mind and then if she responds negatively, you then adjust accordingly.
Example:
Let's say I come on strong sexually at a girl with lots of touching and flirting, and she's not really having much of it.
Instead of ploughing... I calibrate my game based on her responses...
So I'll ease back into some general chit chat... just aim at fun conversation...Then build up the flirting and sexual side of things more slowly.
• CONVERSATIONAL THREADS
You need to know the topics that you will talking about in your interactions.
Examples:
• Ask open-ended questions.
• Ask about her ethnicity.
• Talk about her hobbies and interests.
• DHV (demonstrating high value stories) by telling high value stories where you talk about interesting things you have done e.g travel around the world, combat skills, parties you have attended and the likes.
• SEXUALIZING THE CONVERSATIONS
What you think we'll be having those conversations without sexualizing it.
Do you want to end up in the friend-zone?
So you need to show her that you are interested in her in a romantic and sexual way.
Most guys are afraid of doing that as you don't want to offend the girl (which I respect)
But...it's okay to make a sexual joke or touch her during cold approach or on a date.
Cause she expects you to do that but if you don't then you are going to miss your opportunity.
Then she starts seeing you as a platonic friend.
You need to be leading the conversation and stacking conversational threads, so you don't run out of things to say.
Example:
Me: The way you talk reminds me of someone.
Her: Who?
Me: Lauren, a good friend of mine, pretty but not afraid to talk about the S-word.
Her: What is the S-word?
Me: You know.
Or another way is to use words with double entendre.
E.g long, big, creamy and the likes 😈
-MOS