The Attraction Checklist

Hey Bro,

After 8 years of experience in the dating game, I have a few key factors that can make a woman want to go home with you.

Without further ado, here’s a straightforward (but powerful) checklist to make women insanely attracted to you:

1. IDGAF Mindset

Does she ghost you? No problem. Does she agree to meet up? Great.

You need to stay outcome-independent. Don’t let her actions mess with your mindset, confidence, or mood.

2. Flirting with Other Women in Front of Her

This is a sneaky tactic, but it works wonders. Flirt with the bartender, the waiter, or even her friends.

When she sees that you’re not fully focused on her, she’ll work harder to win your attention. This makes her start chasing you.

3. Calling Her Friends Attractive

This ties into point #2.

4. Playfully Touching Her

In today’s world, most men are too afraid to make bold moves. Be confident, and if you’ve built enough connections, don’t shy away from a playful touch.

But be smart—don’t do it too early. Use discretion and timing.

5. Not Being Afraid to Offend Her

Lighthearted teasing builds connection and shows you aren’t intimidated by her.

If she tests you, don’t over-apologize or act nervous. Stay cool and confident.

6. Having Options

This circles back to the IDGAF mindset.

When you have multiple options, you won’t slip into scarcity mode. If you’re only focused on one girl, you’ll start overthinking and acting desperate.

Instead, talk to different women, go on multiple dates, and build an abundance mindset.

When you have options, women notice—and they’re naturally drawn to that confidence and sense of power.

7. Being Focused on Your Mission 🔥

This is the most critical point.

As a man, you need a purpose, a goal, and something bigger than dating to strive for. This is what high-value men do.

Think about someone like Bill Gates. By conventional standards, he isn’t attractive, but in his younger days, he was completely focused on his mission: building one of the biggest companies in the world.

His status and drive made him a powerful man, and that overshadowed everything else.

Women won’t admit these 7 points are true.

They’ll claim they want “nice guys.”

Don’t fall for the trap.

Follow this checklist, and you’ll go very far.

– MOS