The danger of Chads living "Stacy" lifestyle

Hey Brother,

In my email yesterday about the movie "Cruel Intentions," I talked about how sons from well-off but not very rich families often lack real ambition.

They try to coast through life, which works for a few years, but if they don't have family wealth to fall back on, they will face a harsh reality.

Also, guys with good looks but no money might lack determination because life was too easy for them when they were young. While their life isn't as easy as a beautiful woman's, it's somewhat similar.

However, they don't have a good backup plan if they rely only on their looks.

The party scene can be attractive, especially if you're part of a cool group that hangs out in trendy places.

As a guy, you might not have the same easy access as hot women, but if you're the type they like to be seen with, you can sometimes get into top clubs for free and skip lines.

People might invite you for drinks or drugs without thinking much about the future. If you only go out sometimes, you might not even know this world exists.

When I lived in London, I met many foreign women from wealthy families. It's common because scholarships are rare, so most international students come from families with a lot of money.

Among them, you'll often find women who treat life like a game of dress-up.

They don't even realize how much family money they spend on things like shopping trips to Paris or Milan.

Some of the most unserious ones studied their native language abroad, like a rich German girl getting a degree in German Literature, or a rich French girl in French Literature.

This meant they didn't have to work hard for their degree. If even that seemed like too much effort, they might study art or design at a less prestigious college. Some of them had no idea about the real world.

Pretty-boy Chad has some advantages. It's easy for them to attract women, and they can have a busy social life without trying too hard. But there comes a point when not having a good job isn't cool anymore.

This usually happens when your social group starts to break apart. Some people end up in rehab, others move away, and your close friends might settle down or have unexpected responsibilities.

Chad's good looks only last for so long, especially if that's all he has. On the other hand, a guy who's good-looking and has other qualities will have more success in the long run.

Girls are often more interested in a guy who can provide stability, not just someone good-looking but without direction.

Chads can really mess up their life. One guy I knew saw his exciting lifestyle fade away as he got older. He is now in his 30s, age has not been kind to him, and he is stuck in a boring office job.

He probably peaked in his last year in college. Another friend who was like an older brother to me, couldn't resist women even if they seemed sketchy.

While I used to stay clear of women I found attractive but whom I had a bad feeling about. He, on the other hand, went in dick first, and more often than not, he ended up with yet another bizarre story to tell.

If a hot chick was riding his dick and she asked him if he wanted to do drugs, he’d do it.

When he was at the tail end of his pick-up career, he got involved with a B-tier actress, a woman who managed to land quite a few roles on national TV but whose career had stalled.

It ended badly and he ended up briefly in a psychiatric ward, and he was in rehab, too.

This experience changed him for the worse. He is a broken man. He used to work as a freelance journalist. When I last heard about him from a mutual friend, he had a job in a warehouse. It’s a sad situation.

Good looks can be a disadvantage if you're not careful.

When you're young, it's easy to think life will always be a party, but that's not true. Women often have a backup plan - finding a wealthy guy who likes them.

Guys don't have this option. If you don't make good choices, you could have fun when you're young but end up unhappy for a long time after.

It's like being the 40-year-old "cool wine aunt" that nobody likes.

Don't be like that!

Keep winning 👊 

-MOS