The Gold Digger Litmus Test

Hey Bruv,

One of the biggest traps for men is to mistake her interest for real when in reality she’s just working towards her own goals.

This can lead to “simping” because you’re clinging to her attention out of scarcity, making you dependent on that positive feedback loop.

How do you know if her feelings are real or if you’re just a stepping stone for her?

Try this: behave in ways that are opposite to what she says she wants.

If she cuts you off or gets frustrated it is because she was using you from the beginning and only stayed as long as you played into her plan.

But if she sticks around no matter what, there’s a better chance her attraction is real.

A lot of guys don’t test her intentions because they’re afraid. They fear that if they “rock the boat,” they’ll lose her, which will confirm their worst fears.

Ironically by simping to avoid that outcome, they set themselves up for the exact situation they’re afraid of.

– MOS