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The Greatest Power Most Men Never Use
Hey, Brother,
You’re looking sharp today.
Alright, let’s get into it.
I just finished a one-on-one consulting session with an amazing guy.
He’s a total G but was struggling with something.
He had a hard time staying interested in women after a breakup with someone he cared about deeply.
In short, he felt bitter.
By the end of our session, though, he was fired up and ready for the incredible women about to enter his life. ;-)
However during the session, I noticed something crucial. And I knew I had to share it with you.
A few minutes in, I realized his mindset—the way he viewed his situation—was completely off.
[Your “frame” is simply how you view the world.]
He said to me:
“I don’t think I can get her back given where I am right now.”
I corrected him immediately:
“She doesn’t fit into my new, incredible reality.”
See the difference?
Same situation.
But in his frame, he was powerless and defeated.
In the frame I gave him, he’s in control.
He’s the one who decides.
Here’s the kicker:
There are countless ways to look at any situation in your life.
Why not choose the perspective that gives you the most power?
Why let negative frames hold you back when you can reframe them into something better?
This is the greatest power most men don’t use.
Don’t be like most men.
Best,
MOS