"WHEN IS IT OK TO BE VULNERABLE"

Hey Bruv,

This is a topic that has been fiercely and extensively discussed online.

Now, in my opinion, the issue of vulnerability can be solved with just two words...

"Selective Vulnerability"

Two questions apply here:

• Is it ok to never be vulnerable? No, cause there is no genuine connection between you both.

• Is it ok to always be vulnerable? No, cause there will be no respect and admiration between you both.

The point is she can't trust a man who is always sharing his issues with her.

She is expecting you to be the ROCK to her tempest but this is where Selective Vulnerability comes into play.

Selective Vulnerability is about making her earn your vulnerability.

You are always so composed and unfazed by life's obstacles that she is in awe of your frame.

You only show her the vulnerable side of yourself when she proves her loyalty and behaves as you want.

Probably after the millionth time of asking you to "open up", you then...

Open up after an evening of hot streamy sex and tell her about a certain part of you WITHOUT seeking solace in her.

Just lay it out into the abyss almost as if you are talking to yourself.

And when it is all done?

You make love to her again and give her the best sex of her life.

It's important to fvck her after being vulnerable to communicate you are still HARD - Literally and metaphorically.

Best,

-MOS